Maybe, one time or the other, we had some close association with certain individuals. An association that forms an unspoken bond of friendship. And only time can tell as to how long this bond will eventually last.
Over time, as you try to hold unto this bond and prosper it with countless and enormous efforts in order to keep it alive, there are some bonds that will eventually draw to an end. Sad to say, there are some things that we have to learn to let go because for all we know, we are already hurting inside.
When you let go of people who are close to your heart, it feels like a part of you is breaking apart. But it is always a brave act to learn to let go when you feel like there's nothing to hold on to anymore. Any form of bond or relationship is always a two-way process. Though it is not good to ask for something in return, you can somehow feel it that you are in a disadvantage at times. And when you eventually notice that it is a common scenario, then, it is but a good move to leave behind those people that forms the habit of being user-friendly.
A broken bond it is but it is way much better rather than tolerating those people to use you and pretend that everything is okay. Good friends look after each other and take good care of each other. Good friends do not take advantage of the other.
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