Monday, June 11, 2012

Random Thought 74 - Good Friend, Bad Attitude

It is good to have friends. Friends make us realize that life is more exciting than we used to know.  Thus, we may have lots of friends whom we can party for life.

Given our sets of friends, there are those who are unforgiving.  Unforgiving in ways where they don't know how to behave for mutual benefits.  Some of our so-called friends behave in a selfish manner and without consideration to others.  They behave like they have all the say in everything and whatever they do and say, everyone should agree and follow.  I don't know if they are seeking attentions or simply too naive to reflect on their immaturity.

There is no noble thing but to learn to understand and accept our friends for what they are.  But when repetitive actions become upsetting despite of our disapproval, it would make us feel a less bit affected if we'll take a couple of steps away from them.  Even if it means inventing white lies in order to keep our distance from them, an act not to trouble ourselves and for us not to feel bad especially if we happen to foresee that their actions will simply repeat the very thing that we try to avoid. 

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