Some people think that a guessing game is challenging. It is a challenge where your mind and imagination will be tested. Most probably, it could be fun in some ways. But in a relationship, it would be too much for a fun.
Some people would say things but they mean the other way around. At times they would say, “it is up to you” but they mean it as “you should do this.” Some of them tend to say “I am okay” but actually they are not. And worst of all, they would laugh on the outside but actually they are longing for your embrace and comfort.
What hurts me most are those people who cannot be straightforward about how they feel. They are pretending to be okay but deep inside they are struggling. Wouldn’t it be nice if you are going to talk to someone, you are representing the real you and not the sentiments that cloud your senses. And it would be much appreciated if what you are saying is actually what you mean and not expecting people to think and act just like what you are anticipating them to do.
Life could be complicated, only if we choose to. But we always have other options not to make it miserable especially if it involves people dear to us.
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